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Your reply was very helpful. I wish I new how to break it of, but he knows what buttons to push. Yesterday, I wanted to call him to tell him it is over. I even had a speech prepared.
Had a dream about Incredible Hulk, never saw a movie, destroying something that was suposed to be theater. Odd that he would turn into Incredible Hulk when he saw me. I have heard about the movie it sounds like it is about the uncontrollable angre, at least the new one.
RE: puppy
Hi Lora. Glad this is helping you.
You have broken it off with him once before; you managed to then and you can again.
The predator knows which buttons to push; he preys on you, whether it is through loving words, re-kindling happy memories, cuddles, presents etc. He is all charm and patienceto get what he wants, which is control and then he pounces, destroying like the incredible hulk. You are the theatre in your dream. Which part do you want to play?
I feel he wants revenge because youdumped him and his ego doesn't like it, notone little bit. Yes, he is very angry.
Lora, just tell him to get lost and don't be taken in by his manipulation. When he next 'calls' (he was on the phone in your dream)reach for your inner resources(your weapon) and 'get rid of him'. You hated him in your dream remember! Yes, it is scary and will leave you shaken, but you can as you did once before.Your 'weapon' could be your alreadyprepared speech; ignoring him; physically walking away or just putting down the phone when you hear his voice. But do it, gently, non-aggressivelyand firmly otherwise you are feeding his ego, playing his game,or are you liking this attention? Are you lonely and he is better than nothing?
Your dreams are really warning you now by showing you the destruction he is capable of.
Your true partner is only just around the corner, you've done the hard part, don't go back now, you are almost there, even though you are'hungry' and tired, but it is only a few more steps.
Good luck Lora.
RE: puppy
There are two more dream that I would like to discuss. First dream, is the one I had about a year ago. Second, is the one my ex had when he was in hight school.
1. I was at my boyfriends, now my ex, apartment. I did not see him, but felt his presence in another room. There was strong connection between us. I also felt that there was another woman in the way, it made me very jealous.
The year I had the dream was a year he had moved to Colorado to live with his mother.
2. This is the dream he told me about. He was in his apartment when someone had knocked on his door. On opening the door he saw a man. The man told him that he had no where to live and was looking for a roomate. He than begged my ex to stay with his. My ex had agreed to it.
My ex never lived in an apartment, he had lived in the trailer. After the dream he had totaly changed. I think the odd part he used the name Mark, this is the first name that popped into my head whan I was thinking about the man from my nightmare. The other thing, I had never told him about the name. Pleas tell me there is no connection between the two dream, that it is just my imagination running away.
RE: puppy
Lora. Please stop panicing. All will be well. See your other dream.
When we dream of a building we are dreaming about ourselves and aspects of ourselves,represented by the characters that come into them.
Mark is an aspect of your ex. which he invited into himself and which totally changed him when he was young.
You had a strongconnection once with him but his mother got in the way, making you jealous. His inner mother,his nurturer, is keeping him away from you. Jealousy is a fear of losing something that you think you need to survive.
Yes, the dreams are connected and you have a strongconnection between you, but your intuition, your dreams, is warning you to stayaway, as is his dream in the shape of his mother, who is putting herselfbetween you both.
This, I feel, is past life stuff which you are now needing to resolve in this life and to not repeat; this is why these dreams are so powerful and disturbing.
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What is the bast way to deal with past life? I am also looking for some help with spiritual journey.