Last Saturday I dreamt of my ex-boyfriend (who I split up with nearly 5 years ago, then met up, then split up again 2 years ago). In my dream he was getting married. I felt angry, jealous, gutted, sad, every feeling but happiness that he was getting married to the older woman he now lives with. In my dream just as I was trying to find him to tell him NO, it turned out to be too late and the deed was done then I woke up instantly with the feeling of relief that it was a dream. Ok, I'm single at the moment and pretty ok about that right now and wouldn't go back to him if he begged and pleaded.
I kept this dream to myself as I should be SO over him by now. But recently I have "felt" so strongly that he is unhappy in his life. We used to have a very strong connection when we were together and this feeling just won't go away and it's bloomin' getting on my nerves!.
Then my work colleague told me she had a dream on Monday evening about her ex-boyfriend telling her he was getting married too and she shared the same feelings. What's all this about? Anyone have any ideas as we've just been talking about it and come up confused.
love & smilies to everyone,
Puss
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RE: Dream Link
Hi, sometimes people that have shared part of our past with us........do stop and think of us sometimes as we do them, and we pick up on that thought..........if he was feeling low and was just remembering the good time about when you were together the thought could have been stong and so you recieve it.
love and blessings
lightwinds xx
Wendy
RE: Dream Link
That's a lovely way to think of it......I'll keep that thought, thank you.
love and smilies
Puss
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RE: Dream Link
That is a lovely thought.
I have found that some of us are, by nature, more caring and with a greater ability to feel. Those people also have a very strong intuition combined with an awe-full empathy, so maybe you can feel and know that he is unhappy and you genuinly care about his well-being, simply because it is in your nature to do so.
If this interests anybody then they should look up Jung's typeology.
I believe that moral wisdom comes from understanding one another, thus typeology is important to me.
I am the INFJ type.
Cordially,
Thales.
RE: Dream Link
Hi... I'm new here, so bear with me...
I have done a lot of personal research on dream anomalies, such as dream linking, 'dreamwalking', etc. If you'd care to hear my personal theory, I'll elucidate:
When we dream, our minds enter a specific 'frequency' of activity that, in some way I don't even begin to guess at understanding, can be tuned and connected with other dreamers. Experienced dreamwalkers seem able to 'tune in' specific dreamers at will, regardless of distance; while plenty of us accidentally seem to do so.
Your co-worker and you may have accidentally tuned to a similar or close frequency and shared a very similar dream. Tuning probably caused by similar personal situations, some level of empathy, who knows.
I'm not expressing myself well. I apologize. Still, dream-states of consciousness are one field of study sadly lacking in our modern scientific world. Still plenty of wiggle-room left for explanations!