Hi
I was hoping someone might have an idea about what this dream could be telling me. I had the dream last night. The people involved in the dream were myself and two female friends who I know from years ago when all our children were young. As I moved away from the area 5 years ago we don't see each other or phone but do exchange Christmas cards. We were very close and I hope we will remain so.
THE DREAM:
I was invited to Sarah's house for a get together and Marjie was there too. When I arrived at the house neither of them were very friendly, they were very different to how they used to be and I kept wondering why I had been invited round if they didn't really want to talk to me or be friendly. I wanted to leave but had to go to the loo first. I went into the bathroom which was quite a big room and there was a stranger (a man) standing in the corner of the room but he was friendly and I didn't feel threatened. Marjie was trying to break into the room and I felt scared but I felt this man would protect me but he disappeared when Marjie finally got through the door. She was shouting at me and being really horrible and I said I was leaving. As I walked through the house to leave Sarah and Marjie were shouting at me and being horrible. I felt really upset and confused but glad to get out of the house.
What could this be telling me? Can anyone help. Thanks.
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Dear Sebenny,
As I moved away from the area 5 years ago we don't see each other or phone but do exchange Christmas cards. We were very close and I hope we will remain so.
This might not be what you want to hear, but for me "being very close" and having contact only through Christmas cards does not quite fit together. Maybe your dream is pointing out at a part of the relationhsip between you and your friends that needs re-assessing? I see going to the loo as a sign of psychological things that are "transformed and evacuated". The fact that Marjie tries to break in while you are in the bathroom could point out at boundaries that are not respected.
Only take what makes sense for you... It's your dream and only you can know its real meaning.
Artemis
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Thanks for your reply Artemis. It has given me lots to think about as I realised I don't actually feel close to those friends now that I have moved away but I sort of feel guilty about it - they helped me through a very traumatic time and now I feel I have discarded them I suppose. But at the same time I am building a new life here and getting stronger now. Perhaps the dream meant there is some sort of emotional conflict going on particularly as I am well and truly starting to let go of the past. I'll have to think on this a bit more.
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Hi Sebenny,
There is a website you may find helpful... www.dreammoods.com Its great you're listening to what your dream may be telling you to deal with in real life.
love n hugs yvex
RE: Could anyone interpret this one please-might be important
Its great you're listening to what your dream may be telling you to deal with in real life.
In my opinion, that's one of the important aspects of looking at dreams: get the unconscious mind's view on a subject and see how to integrate it in our awake life.
Artemis