hi in eed your help. im 25 have e good sexl ife. but i cum to quick. sometimes during for-play i cum. sometimes after few strokes. or during blow job after fewsucks. its annoying me and my lover.
dont get to satisfy her at all. 🙁
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ORIGINAL: randy_uk
im 25 have e good sexl ife
Patently not!
see a professional
PS. Whist the subject matter is valid, I suspect your word choice will not garner many sympathetic replies [sm=scratchchin.gif]
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Are you on the right forum? Perhaps you made a premature decision.
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Go easy on the poor fella.
That's to everyone. 😀
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hehehe, try eating plenty of walnuts (good for premature ejaculation), and try bringing more love into your sexual relationships.
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Hi randy & welcome to Hp
not being a man I can't offer any advice apart from talking to your GP who maybe able to help or refer you to someone who can.
However, I do have vague memories of seeing something on TV ages ago which was about various embarraing problems & I may be very wrong here so don't take my word for it but I seem to recall a technique of squeezing the end of the penis just before you climax which will/might delay the orgasim...but..as suggested, talk it through with your doctor. A lot of men suffer in silence with this problem due to embarresment but surley if your doctor can find a way around this then it's worth it:eek:
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Hi Randy,
Most men don't admit to such things, so you are in that rare minority who can put their hand up and say , 'there's something wrong here.' So well done for that.
I used to suffer too, but I'd read all the so called tips and none of them worked, so I looked at Tantric Sex on the internet. In this ancient art, men from the Eastern Cultures can teach themselves to have sex for hours and hours. They develop the mind and move the focus of pleasure from themselves to their partners. They aim - first and foremost - to give pleasure to their lover.
This is your problem and was mine. You are totally focused on you. In foreplay your mind is totally focused on the feeling and sensations that you are experiencing from your partner and you build that 'lovely sensation' in your mind and 'bingo' - you did it again!
When you are with your partner - mentally stand back from the situation. Ask her what she wants and learn to give her a wonderful experience. Don't even think about ejaculating. You should aim to give her multiple orgasms.In this way you can have sex for hours and hours and hours.
Try it - it works
Best wishes
Publisher
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Hi there
I suffered from this problem years ago aged 16-20 and i think mainly due to anxiety and need to perform. Also, as sex was not reular i think i would become over-wrought at times. As you have a partner you are in a position to relax and both of you try and solve the problem. Firstly, i'd suggest maybe letting it happen and then starting over with your girlfriend and see if you feel less sensitive second time around.
The squeezing the tip method can help some guys, but not all. Many men try to distance themselves for a while and not think of the sensatins you are having - think of anything mundane and see if this helps at all - after a while you should notice you feel less anxious and can truely enjoy the sex. Another thing to try is a cock ring - a device which fits around the penis and balls and acts to delay orgasm. My wife and I periodically use a cock ring and have found it to be of great benefit in delaying climax and allowing us to explore eachother for a longer peiod.
Follow these steps and speak to a GP - people are available to help. Sex is a vital part of a relationship and really is worth looking at each option.
Psi
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ORIGINAL: Publisher
Hi Randy,
Most men don't admit to such things, so you are in that rare minority who can put their hand up and say , 'there's something wrong here.' So well done for that.
I used to suffer too, but I'd read all the so called tips and none of them worked, so I looked at Tantric Sex on the internet. In this ancient art, men from the Eastern Cultures can teach themselves to have sex for hours and hours. They develop the mind and move the focus of pleasure from themselves to their partners. They aim - first and foremost - to give pleasure to their lover.
Try it - it works
Best wishes
Publisher
Hi,
I agree with Publisher, where focus goes is essential. You can also have orgasms and not ejactulate.
(Amelia Jane, loved seeing a post beginning " not being a man I can't offer any advice ... " I have made a few posts begining the other way ... great to see the openness of this place)
I also read with interest all the other posts, ain't ever too young to learn new tricks ... [sm=hidesbehindsofa.gif]
xo
J..mmm
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ORIGINAL: randy_uk
hi in eed your help. im 25 have e good sexl ife. but i cum to quick. sometimes during for-play i cum. sometimes after few strokes. or during blow job after fewsucks. its annoying me and my lover.
dont get to satisfy her at all. 🙁
Choke your ***** if you feel your cumming..:D
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Dear Alston,
Is yours a medically approved procedure [sm=rollaugh.gif][sm=rollaugh.gif][sm=rollaugh.gif]
Like your sense of humour :D:D
Publisher [sm=wave.gif]
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YES! Its been tested by me!! And its slightly work!:D
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I don't know whether to laugh cry or what at this thread. Personally please forgive me if i'm wrong I cant help thinking its all a wind up by someone up for a bloomin good laugh. 😉
However its done the world of good to open this delicate subject as its got people Cumming out the woodwork[sm=rollaugh.gif][sm=rollaugh.gif] with advice for others suffering the real affliction. Even if it does mean Murdering your Penis , by choking it. Wonder if they'd do that one on CSI lol[&:].
Well done all of you its taken courage to open up like this,
Loves & Blessings Maria xxx
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Dear Alston66,
Just a thought - if ever you write a book called 'Choking the Penis' I'll publish it for you [8D].
Publisher [sm=rollaugh.gif][sm=rollaugh.gif]