Hi Foxylady
Looking at the symptoms you have posted, there are several possibilities of what may be causing your problems. Candida/fungal infection is a common one - have you had antibiotics in the last year or so? Itchiness round the anus is often a sign. Treating Candida is another matter - not easy! You might get the Dr to test for it and if positive give you some tablets to take (be aware that die-off can make you feel pretty awful for a couple of days). Once treated you need to look at why you got it in the first place - a BANT registered
nutritional therapist can guide you trough the process of recovery and prevention. Ask your doctor to test for bacterial infection too - this is treated with antibiotics.
It may be caused by a shortage of essential oils, as eczema often is - which you get from eating oily fish (such as herring, mackerel, sardines, and ocean salmon, and flaxseeds (oil) and nuts. You could try supplementing these 'good' oils - a tablespoon a day with a mixed tocopherol version of vitamin E capsule until it is improved, then reduce, (unless you are on blood thinning medications, in which case this is not an option). This will deal with the eczema - and possibly the itching as well. Your skin and brain will thank you for the oils
Another possibility is food intolerance (another minefield!) but one which, if you find the cause, can change your life! Again a nutritional therapist can sort this out for you and help deal with the underlying causes, heal the gut and advise about diet, supplements and lifestyle. Allergy is also a possibility, but less likely.
There are all sorts of things like avoiding artificial fibres in underwear, soaps, bath foams, scented creams. Vasseline is made from petrochemicals and is not good for the skin - aloe vera gel may be kinder, or E45, KY, etc - have a word with the pharmacist. Zinc oxide ointment/powder may also be helpful - zinc supports immune function. Soothing oatmeal in the bath can make it less irritating (bag the fine oatmeal, soak in a bowl of water for at least an hour or overnight, then add to the cool bath - a piece of tights tied at each end with the oatmeal in it works fine as a bag).
EFT can be found
here - with masses to explore including a free starter download. Brilliant for all sorts of things! and hours of reading.
Hope it gets sorted soon!
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