I echo what Ava has said Mikey. Please re-read all that has been posted on your various threads. I am embarassed that someone who professes to be a trained nutritionist/nutritional therapist is unable to help you - that is our job!
OR, is it YOU that is not listening????
If you don't get on with the therapist then that is another matter (find another one), but food intolerances are bread and butter for NT. Getting the gut sorted is vital to sorting any intolerances out. YOU also have to play your part and follow the advice you have been given, and if you don't understand it, then ASK her.
She should also given you a list of suitable foods - and there are plenty out there. Have you tried buckwheat, quinoa and millet for example, as alternatives to wheat and potato?
What about eating lots of fruit and veg - 3 fruit and 5 veg portions - and a portion is 75-100gms (3-4oz) so a total of a pound and a half of fruit and veg would do you a world of good, alkalising your body, providing fibre and loads of phytonutrients to help heal your gut. Have a look at
this list for some idea of what you can eat. There are plenty of other lists available - all you need to do is avoid tomatoes, bell pepper, potatoes, aubergine (egg plant), and chillies. There are lots of recipe books available - many are on special offer in discount high street book shops.
As for milk, ther are lots of alternatives out there: rice, oat, and quinoa milks to start off with. You'll get them at a healthfood shop on the high street. Use them as you would ordinary milk.
You'll need to avoid processed foods as they have all sorts of hidden ingredients, especially soya. As for nuts - you need to be rigorous about this as it can turn into a full blown nut allergy and THAT is problematic - I have a friend that has to carry an injection all the time to counteract any possible reaction.
You need to change how you think about food - that is the job of your therapist and if she fails at that job then find another one.
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